I am a Failure

27 Nov 2019 #Failure

Hello,

My name is Daniel Dyer, I am the founder of a shopping and marketing App called D’Appy Deals. Also creator of the Helping Hand and Charity Support Programs.

I am a Failure!

In my life I have failed and am a failure in many things. Love, work, family, friends, relationships, creativity, responsibility, health and excuses. It is through my failures that I have become the person I am today. Maybe I have failed at that, I don’t know as I am still working on that one.

Lets see what kind of failures I have.

Love – I failed to to keep the one person I truly cared for. I still fail at love. Yet in doing so have meet many others that have taught me new wonders.

Work – I fail everyday in bringing to life an idea and a dream of free marketing for small businesses with my App. I fail as I don’t have the experience or know the right people to help make it successful. Yet ‘I have an App’. I have created this from nothing and people are using it. To this day it may not be the great numbers I hope but it is growing. I can only hope others will see what I have failed for and embrace the concepts I have created.

Friends – I failed to keep in contact with people I consider friends and have lost a few along the way. Yet when I do reach out and say hello they are happy to hear from me. When we catch up it is a great time of comrade and laughter. Reminiscing about times gone by. Finding out about their failures and successes. I fail at keeping some of my friends from dying…

Family – I fail to remain in contact with cousins and relatives that I should be there for. I fail to understand why my sister won’t communicate with me. Especially after I have helped her so much. Yet I have a beautiful sister out there that was my protector when I was a child. She taught me strength and stubbornness. How to ride a horse and understand its beauty.

Relationships – I fail to maintain relationships at standards others expect of me. I fail at building business relationships to push my success forward. I fail to be a user of people for my own selfish gains. Yet the people I interact with I cherish their ideas and opinions about things. Right or wrong!. I enjoy their interactions and occasional encouragement.

Responsibility – I am a failure at being a responsible adult. I have failed in my responsibility to help others when they required it of me. I am a failure at my responsibility to encourage people that want it at times they need it. I am a failure at my responsibility to put myself ahead of other peoples needs. I am a failure at my responsibility of working on my business instead of writing a piece about My Failures. Yet it helps to vent every now and then.

Creativity – I am a failure at having an artistic modern eye. I like Red and Blue. I fail at creating a product everyone wants to use or be apart of. I fail to understand Picasso’s art. Yet my apprenticeship at 18 was as a typographer for 5 years.

Health – At 50 years of age I fail to be that muscle bound older guy that all the girls want. I fail to eat the things that are good for me everyday. I fail to have a physique that is without aces and pains of life. Yet I am still alive and thankful for that pleasure. I have new days that I can better myself or help other people.

Excuses – I have failed others by making excuses for jobs not done, places not visited, people not contacted. I have failed for making excuses for payments not met, money not earned, things I should be doing but keep putting off. Yet there have been a lot of excuses made for times that were extremely memorable.

I am very positive that when you ask any successful entrepreneurs about how they got to where they are. They will tell you, that through their Failures they found success. They just learn’t to embrace them better than others.

It is through failure we can build success in life, work and relationships. Learn to see failure as your learning tool for life, and move on!.

You see without Failure I would never understand the feeling of being successful or the joy of simply being a Winner!